I heard some pretty interesting news (well... gossip) recently.
Heres the full story!
Once upon a time, there was a girl in her early 30s and boy in his late 20s. They started dating for more than 6 months but no more than a year. One day, the girl tells her girlfriend that she is getting married NEXT MONTH to a man shes only gone out for NO MORE than a year and plan to get hitched in ONE MONTH!
When i heard this I was totally shocked! First of all, the materialistic shock! How can someone plan a wedding in one month? What about the dress? the fitting? the makeup? the hair? your guests? the food? the flowers? the photography? the restaurant? the HOUSE?
But... maybe this couple wants a small wedding with a few of their close friends and family there and a simple dress and simple food and very very plain everything (which still takes time to get organized). BUT what about the groom!?? Are you comfortable marrying someone you've only been with for no longer than a year?! Do you really know who he really is? Is he really the right person?
Maybe I'm not at that age yet... and in couple years I might do the same (hopefully I wont become that desperate... but who knows!), but right now? I can not understand this concept? Isn't your wedding day suppose to be the most memorable, special and exciting day of your life? The wedding day is where the bride is the prettiest in her whole life with her gorgeous dress with flowers? not simple plain Jane dress with bad makeup and fake flower shit? Isn't this the day where you want to share with everyone you love and not like 4 of your friends? Why would anyone want to just such simplicity?
Not that is any of my business... but I dont get it... do u?
P.S. Though I am writing this, I wish them the best of luck together!!